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  What if we could bring down the WBTS?

  by derangedjdub in

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  2. entertainment

  what would be your plan or ideal reason the walls came crashing down?

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  stan livedeath

  no need to try to bring down the cult--they are doing it themselves.
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  ex-jw-uk

  by bigmac in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i'm quite new to this site, & have realised some members have a union jack symbol under their avatar.

  i don't.. could we have a "show of hands" from any uk members?

  i've already found several by reading older posts..

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  stan livedeath

  not been bumped for a while--so this is for LHS and any others who might be interested.

  oh--and i used to be Bigmac before i got resurrected into this new system.
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  Seeking support during confusing and stressful 'cognitive dissonance'

  by LHS123 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  sorry for the long post but i need help.

  ive been a jw for 20 years - still active and attending meetings, baptised at 18, i have recently become very dissillusioned.

  a few reasons: ill treatment of my kids by a prominent 'assembly speaker' elder, then my son left the truth at 15 (not baptised) and was 'dropped' instantly, despite this community having been his whole life for 15 years.

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  stan livedeath

  hello LHS --and welcome to the site. I'm in the UK--and many others on here are as well---heres a link to some of us.

  http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/197364/ex-jw-uk?size=20&page=1
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  WHAT IS YOUR "AFTER MEETING RITUAL? "

  by brandnew in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  me ?

  my after meeting ritual, is getting my suit off, and a beer in my hand....in less than 2 minutes from entering my door.

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  stan livedeath

  porn and a wank to get that brainwashing out of my head...

  
  

  err--right---and--does it work ? only-you might be on to something there.

  but try not to spill your drink.
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  Conspiracy Theory ?

  by Phizzy in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  we are all aware here that the wt/jw org is trying its hardest to wriggle out of paying rightful compensation in the form of damages to victims of abuse who bring a claim.. they must be worried about future claims too, not just from decades ago, but from the present, as they have not made any effort as yet to truly protect the vulnerable.. here is my question :.

  as they now direct the congregations through the organization known as "the christian congregation of jehovah's witnesses" and as in each country this organization is headed and run by a few mendicants with no assets, do you think in future the big jw/wt corporations will deny all responsibility for abuse, by saying the very poor "christian congregation of jehovah's witnesses", which owns no property/real estate and has no cash or other assets, is alone responsible ????

  hence no pay out ?.

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  stan livedeath

  so--the watchtower is merely a non-profit making business that prints magazines and books. -- which it then gives--free--to various autonomous groups--called congregations--in many countries around the globe.

  the volunteer members of these congregations then freely distribute these publications to the public. any donations--both from the public--and the volunteers ----in excess of any operating overheads---are then handed over to the watchtower to help cover their costs.

  neat--so any misdemeanours by individual members of these congregations are nothing to do with the printing business. got it.
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  weird questions people ask you at the KH?

  by Truthexplorer in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  so i meet sister ott zealot.

  she says ah .... its lovely to see you; how are you doing.

  i said yeah i'm fine thank you!

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  stan livedeath

  thank god i'm an atheist and escaped that crazy cult 40 years ago.
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  child custody

  by zebulon in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  this is my first post.

  i have been an everyday reader of this site for well over three years.

  also jwfacts, jwstruggle, silentlambs, etc.

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  stan livedeath

  hello Zebulon. a distressing--but very familiar story. it would help if you are able to tell us what country you are in.
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  Is it common for old men to marry young JW?

  by adjusted knowledge in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i left in the 90's and marriage partners were similar in age at my former congregation.

  i ran into a former jw friend from my childhood.

  i haven't seen him in 15 years.

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  stan livedeath

  i have a real difficult time with a person marrying someone over ten years difference in age

  . for one thing 20 years to me borderlines on perverted, pedifile ,behavior, cradle robbing, ect. and a female who goes after such an older man is not only mentally unbalanced to me, they have daddy issues. or caretaker issues.lol its just weird. i mean your 40 going after your daughters 20 yr old freind, ew . sorry.
  

  so that now when these ones who marry such a gap in age, are 60 and still having some energy left, they are caretakers for a senior citizen and their married life is over..

  why would anyone want such a generation gap?
  

  imo, older men who go after young women in the org are no better than all the other men in the world who chase young women to boost their egos.lol

  
  

  
  

  what utter crap. if you were a bloke i would tell you to fuck off.
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  They're spying me on facebook

  by cookiemaster in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  most of you have probably seen the apostasy trial video posted on youtube (and all over social media) recently.

  well, there's a "wordly" woman from another country that i had worked with some time ago and she's posted it, tagged me, and asked "wtf?

  ", knowing i'm a still a jw just for family reasons.

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  stan livedeath

  i have 2 FB a/cs--my real --private one for family and friends. very few xj's on it--only if they are close friends.

  but i also have my xjw a/c--stan livedeath--look me up and add if you want to. hundreds of "friends" on there--most ive never met.
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  Is it common for old men to marry young JW?

  by adjusted knowledge in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i left in the 90's and marriage partners were similar in age at my former congregation.

  i ran into a former jw friend from my childhood.

  i haven't seen him in 15 years.

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  stan livedeath

  my born in ex wife was in her early forties when she married a chap in his late 60's. i think she wore him out though.

  but then i'm now 67 with a 44 year old future wife.